Erykah Badu Vs. Wayne Coyne | The Quietus

Erykah Badu Vs. Wayne Coyne

Badu, who guests on new Flaming Lips track, blasts the band on Twitter after airing of an apparently unapproved video

Erykah Badu has taken to Twitter to deliver a lengthy and eloquent tirade at The Flaming Lips’ Wayne Coyne, report Pitchfork, after the the video for their collaborative track ‘The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face’ was released without the former’s approval. The track, which is set to appear on the Lips’ album Heady Fwends, had its very not-safe-for-work video premiered last week, and featured Badu and her sister Nayrok in varying states of undress. However, according to Badu, it was never approved by her or her sister, and in her Twitter statement she claims to have been manipulated.

The video was taken down the following day, and The Flaming Lips released a statement yesterday, saying "The video link that was erroneously posted on Pitchfork by the Flaming Lips of the Music Video “The First Time I Ever Saw Your Face”, which features Erykah Badu, is unedited and unapproved.. Sorry!! We, the Flaming Lips, accept full responsibility for prematurely having Pitchfork post it. It has outraged and upset a segment of fans and we apologize if we offended any viewers!!! This is a Flaming Lips video which  features Erykah Badu and her sister Nayrok and is not meant to be considered an Erykah Badu or Nayrok statement, creation, or approved version."

Badu took to Twitter to deliver a response in full:

"then… perhaps, next time u get an occasion to work with an artist who respects your mind/art, you should send at least a ROUGh version of the video u PLAN to release b4 u manipulate or compromise the artist’s brand by desperately releasing a poor excuse for shock and nudity that sends a convoluted message that passes as art( to some).

Even with Window Seat there was a method and thought process involved. I have not one need for publicity . I just love artistic dialogue . And just because an image is shocking does not make it art.

You obviously have a misconception of who I am artistically. I don’t mind that but…

By the way you are an ass.

Yu did everything wrong from the on set .

First:

You showed me a concept of beautiful tasteful imagery( by way of vid text messages) .

I trusted that. I was mistaken.

Then u release an unedited, unapproved version within the next few days.

That all spells 1 thing ,

Self Serving .

When asked what the concept meant after u explained it , u replied ,"it doesn’t mean anything , I just want to make a great video that everyone is going to watch. "

I understood , because as an artist we all desire that. But we don’t all do it at another artist’s expense .

I attempted to resolve this respectfully by having conversations with u after the release but that too proved to be a poor excuse for art.

From jump,

You begged me to sit in a tub of that other shit and I said naw. I refused to sit in any liquid that was not water. But Out of RESPECT for you and the artist you ‘appear’ to be, I Didn’t wanna kill your concept , wanted u to at least get it out of your head . After all, u spent your dough on studio , trip to Dallas etc.. Sooo, I invited Nayrok , my lil sis and artist, who is much more liberal ,to be subject of those other disturbing (to me ) scenes . I told u from jump that I believed your concept to be disturbing. But would give your edit a chance.

You then said u would take my shots ( in clear water/ fully covered parts -seemed harmless enough) and Nayrok’s part ( which I was not present for but saw the photos and a sample scene of cornstarch dripping ) and edit them together along with cosmic, green screen images ( which no one saw) then would show me the edit. .

Instead, U disrespected me by releasing pics and rough vid on the internet without my approval. (Contract breech )

That is equivalent to putting out a security camera’s images of me changing in the fitting room.

I never would have approved that tasteless, meaningless, shock motivated video .

Our art is a reflection of who we are . I have no connection to those images shot in their raw version. I was interested in seeing an amazing edit that would perhaps change or alter my thoughts . Never happened .

You also did the same thing with the song itself which displays crappy "rough "vocals by me . I let it go , perhaps iiiii was missing something, I thought.

I Should have followed my first mind back in studio when recording the vocals "your way".

( Red flag.) It was uncomfortable.

For that I am at fault .

Consequently, brother, As a human I am disgusted with your what appears to be desperation and poor execution. And disregard for others . As a director I am unimpressed . As a sociologist I understand your type. As your fellow artist I am uninspired. As a woman I feel violated and underestimated.

Hope it works out for ya ,Wayne.

Really i could give a shit less.

Still love your live show tho.

And , you’re welcomed.

Lesson learned .

By the way I have guested in very few videos. But I have always been given the opportunity to see the edit and contribute to it when my roll is substantial. Not this time .

I guess u feel it better to apologize than ask for permission and be refused . Hey, Love u man, but your ways are not very nice .

O, And on behalf of all the artists u have manipulated or plan to manipulate, find another way .

These things have been said out of necessity.

And if you don’t like it

you can KiSS MY Glittery ASS .

O and Nayrok told me to tell u to kiss her ass too .

Almost forgot.

Peace

Ms. Badu"

It’s fair to say that Coyne’s response was unlikely to cool the situation down at all, replying "Hey @fatbellybella I kissed it!!!! Thanks!!!!!!"

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